Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Unit 9 Final Project


Unit 9 Final Project

Why is it important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically? What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have for yourself?

In order for wellness professionals to make a positive, lasting impact on their clients, I believe they need to practice what they preach, psychologically, spiritually, and physically.  True wellness can only be achieved when an individual is happy and healthy in each aspect of their life.  I think that in order for a healer to constructively help clients, they need to have and understanding of life’s impact on healthiness, and experience the labors, struggles, and pleasures in life.  For healers to effectively care for clients they must first be able to effectively care for themselves.

In order to achieve my current goals, I know that I need to work on gaining a higher level of psychological and physical wellness.  I am very comfortable with where I am at with my spirituality, yet know I can always try to reach a higher level.  I understand that it takes constant, and never-ending work to truly flourish, and I do not think one can ever be completely healthy in all aspects of life, because there is always a higher level of wellness to try to attain.

Assessment:  How have you assessed your health in each domain? How do you score your wellness spiritually, physically, and psychologically?

I would rate my psychological wellness at 6, my physical wellness at 8, and my spiritual wellness at 9.5.

I really need to work on my psychological wellness; I grapple the most in this area.  I feel I can adequately handle stress and anxiety, and that I have strength and will, but I also feel that I need to take better care of my mind.  I acknowledge that I can get overwhelmed at times, and that I let small things bother me, continue to build up, and then get to a point that I resent that I did not do anything about my feelings sooner.  I also can take things too personally and I have a desire to always try to make things right with difficult people and relationships.  This area is definitely where I should be focusing my full energy.

My physical wellness is definitely satisfactory.  I walk 3~5 miles almost every day and I hike and do Yoga once a week.  I lost about twenty pounds a couple years ago, have maintained my loss, and I pretty happy with my physical appearance, though I could use some toning in my arm and abdomen.  I feel that I eat a healthy, balanced diet and I try to eat my fruits and veggies, and I drink plenty of water.


Spiritually, I feel very happy where I am in my life and rate myself at 9.5.  I try to live every day to the fullest and as if it could be my last.  I appreciate my Family and Friends, and am grateful for all I have.  I try not to have regrets and take also try to take time out to smell the roses whenever possible.  My family and I started going to a UCC Church about four years ago, and I get a lot of fulfillment from attending service.  It is a very affirming and accepting Church and I believe it has strengthened my morals and value.  I have always been accepting of all people, and worshiping with a group of people who feel the same is a great experience. 

Goal development:  List at least one goal you have for yourself in each area, Physical, Psychological (mental health) and Spiritual.

As far as my psychological wellness, I would like to use some of the techniques and mental exercises I have learned in this class and incorporate them into my life. I feel they could be very beneficial to my psychological wellness.  I would like to try to “not sweat the small stuff” as much, and work on the strained relationship I have with my middle Sister.  She really has a way of bringing me down and making me feel bad about myself, but I do try to use my reaffirming techniques and reassure myself that I am a good person.  I do want to have a relationship with my Sister, yet I realize that it is not healthy at this time, and therefore, I would like to find a way that we can be in each others lives without the hurt feelings that come with our relationship.

In regards to my physical wellness, I hope to stay healthy so I am able to continue my current exercise routine, and eventually incorporate some strength training.  I know I could reach a higher level of fitness if I tried a little harder.  I plan to continue eating well, and have seriously considered giving up red meat for the health benefits.

I am very happy with the Spiritual wellness that my Family and I are maintaining.  My Daughters and Husband have become as involved in the Church as I have and this makes me happy.  It was not a forced issue for any of us, we went to a couple different Churches, and are all happy with the choice we made.  My younger Daughter and I volunteer at monthly Bean Suppers and my older Daughter is the secretary for the State Youth Counsel, so I feel this has had a positive impact on my entire Family.


Practices for personal health:  What strategies can you implement to foster growth in each of the following domains; Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual. Provide at least two examples of exercises or practices in each domain. Explain how you will implement each example.

To foster my psychologically wellness I can utilize visualization and meditation practices.  For improving my physical wellness I need to increase my strength training and flexibility exercises.  Spiritually I would like to volunteer more and give back some of the positive energy I feel I receive from attending Church. 

I currently attend Yoga once a week and find the meditation portion very beneficial.  It helps me to let the stress and negativity melt away.  I have been contemplating seeing a counselor to deal with the feeling and emotions that come from my relationship with my Sister, and I think this could be a useful tool at this stage of my life.  Mentally, I hope to incorporate strength and training exercises into my exercise routine.  I always say I will start tomorrow, and have been doing that since I started taking classes again, but I realize there is not time like the present.  For my spiritual wellness, I have been looking into ways that I can volunteer my time and give back.
  
Commitment:  How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months? What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness?

I have a plan of where I want to be in six months and I commit to try to achieve these goals. 

Writing down my goals is a good way to access my progress.  To have them written down on paper, and not just in my mind, is a good tool to keep me focused and on track.  My strategy is to keep a journal of my goals and refer to it often.
My whole Family is committed to living a healthy life and we are keeping each other honest and on track.

Creating a mantra that I say out loud every morning is a good tool for me to use to keep me focused as well, and appreciative of my life.  Some good vows that Dacher recommends are:

I commit myself to:

·       Enter a personal process of self-development.  I recognize that this requires an inward turn that is supported by the necessary changes in my outer life and is grounded in regular contemplative practice.

·       Study, understand, and integrate an integral vision and its principles and practices into my personal and professional life.

·       To hold a vision of health and healing whose final goal is health, happiness, and wholeness – a possibility that exists for every person regardless of individual circumstances.  I recognize that health and healing is this expansive sense can continue up to and through death.

·       Uphold the ethical principles of a spiritual life.  In general, this can be defined as those attitudes and behaviors that serve to eliminate suffering and promote peace, health, happiness, and wholeness for others and ourselves.

·       Meet every individual as a unique sacred being.  The individual’s circumstance, need, temperament, and capacities will define the personalized process of health and healing.  I recognize that deep, unconditional listening is necessary to achieve this goal.

·       Develop through personal contemplative practice a healing presence that is acknowledging, comforting, reassuring, safe, nonjudgmental, and infused with loving-kindness.

·       Acknowledge and support the innate healing capacities in each individual.  I recognize that the individual is the ultimate source of his or her health and healing and the author of his or her own life.

·       Hold all life as unique and precious.

By utilizing the practices and vows I hope to improve my overall mental health.

~ Cheryl

References:

Dacher, E. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing. Basic Health Publications Inc.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Unit 8


 After reviewing each of the exercises and practice sessions, the two that I feel are the most beneficial to my personal life and nurture my mental fitness are meditation and visualization.  Due to the daily stressors in my life, the ups and downs of the emotions of myself and my loved ones, and the needs of my “aging” body, these exercises both help me calm my mind, ease my stress, relax my body, and help me be more self aware of the positive things in my life.  Some days I feel like I am running in circles and Yoga and meditation can help by bringing awareness to the importance of deep diaphragmatic, cleansing breaths, and clearing my mind, allowing for some inner peace and tranquility.  I also find myself using visualization when my mood is down, and not even being aware that I am doing it.  I might be commuting to work on a cool rainy day, not looking forward to going into work at all, and my mind will start to wander.  I will then find myself thinking about the family cruise we took last year or about how happy I will be when were out camping for a week in the summer, and instantly my mood can change and they day just seems brighter.  These techniques have worked for me in the past and I see myself utilizing them now and will continue to do so in the future.

~ Cheryl   

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Unit 6 BLOG


Hello All ~

I really enjoyed this exercise and agree with Dacher that it is very powerful in expanding the mind and heart, and can help shift our focus from personal love to universal loving-kindness.

It was really quite east to repeat the following positive phrases for 10 minutes:
·       May all individuals gain freedom from suffering.
·       May all individuals find sustained health, happiness, and wholeness.
·       May I assist all individuals in gaining freedom from suffering.
·       May I assist all individuals in finding, health, happiness, and wholeness.

I found myself continually thinking about the wholeness, health, peace and happiness I truly wish upon other human beings, and I tried to think about what they might be thinking or feeling and put those thought above my own.  It also made me realize all I have to be thankful for, and that I am grateful that I have happiness, love, health, and wholeness in my own life.

When I attempted the integral assessment I really put my brain to work.  What aspect of my life ~ psychospiritual, biological, interpersonal, or worldly ~ is the source of difficulty and suffering?  Focus on this one area, really?  I think I am doing just fine and getting along great on my life journey and then to think about what is my source of difficulty and suffering?  Can’t we all improve in some aspects of our life to bring about greater happiness?  Without sounding selfish, I think I personally need to work more on being an advocate for my own happiness and being less of the people pleaser who wants to make sure everyone else is OK….

~ Cheryl 

Monday, April 1, 2013

Unit 5 Blog



Unit 5 Blog

Hello Everyone ~


I found the loving-kindness exercise to be more straightforward, captivating, and easier for me to relate to than the subtle mind exercise. 

In the loving-kindness exercise, we had to visualize a loved one who was suffering while we were maintaining our breathing.  By allowing the dark cloud of suffering to enter our body with our in-breath, we were able to let the suffering completely dissolve in our heart.  I liked the idea of this exercise in that we welcomed loving-kindness into our heart while lessening our self-centeredness, thereby being able to share this loving-kindness with others as we breathed out health, love, and happiness.  I found it easier to stay focused and really get deep into a natural, calm, and peaceful state.

In contrast, the subtle mind exercise had us reflect on the levels of psychospiritual flourishing; the witnessing mind, calm-abiding mind, and unity consciousness.  The goal was to train the mind to reign in the constant mental activity of our thought, feelings, emotions and images.  I thought this exercise was more challenging and took more effort for me to maintain my focus.  I lost focus several times, due to the long pauses, and found it hard to get back to the state of relaxation I was previously enjoying.

The connection between spiritual wellness to mental and physical wellness is crucial for an individual to experience human flourishing.  I believe individuals can achieve a spiritual connection to any higher power, which can be a God, an emotion, or a material object.  A spiritual connection can give an individual a deeper sense of their spiritual awareness as well as benefit their mental and physical wellness.  I think both are needed to truly achieve human flourishing.  I feel meditation and prayer, coupled with proper nutrition, exercise, and a healthy lifestyle, all play key roles in maintaining a healthy mind, body, and soul.

Peace,
~ Cheryl